Let’s be honest—solo travel can feel like the ultimate adventure… and occasionally, a little lonely. You get to set your own schedule, eat where you want, sleep when you want, and chase down whatever experiences excite you most. But sometimes, you just want someone to laugh with over dinner or share that epic view you found after a long hike. The good news? Meeting people while traveling solo isn’t as hard as it sounds.
Whether you’re an introvert testing the waters or a social butterfly looking for new connections, here’s a friendly, real-world guide to meeting people while you’re out exploring on your own.
1. Stay in Social Accommodations
If you’re used to hotels, consider switching it up. Hostels, homestays, and guesthouses are like social hubs for solo travelers. Even if you’re not into dorm rooms, many hostels offer private rooms with access to shared spaces where the real magic happens—kitchens, lounges, and rooftop terraces.
People in these spots are usually in the same boat as you: open to chatting, grabbing food, or exploring together. A casual “Where are you from?” can lead to a new friend (or even a new travel buddy).
Bonus tip: Look for places with community dinners, walking tours, or pub crawls. You don’t have to attend everything, but it’s an easy way to start conversations naturally.
2. Join a Group Tour or Class
You don’t have to commit to a full-on group trip. A day tour, cooking class, or cultural workshop is a low-pressure way to meet people with similar interests.
Food tours, bike rides, salsa dancing classes, scuba certification courses—whatever you’re into, there’s likely a group of locals and travelers doing it together. These shared experiences create natural bonding moments, and by the end, someone’s usually asking, “Want to grab a drink after this?”
Pro tip: Book experiences on platforms like Airbnb Experiences, GetYourGuide, or through your accommodation—often, they’re more local and personal.
3. Use Social Apps (Yes, Really)
You already use your phone to book flights and find food—why not use it to connect with people?
Apps like Tinder, Bumble BFF, and Couchsurfing’s Hangouts feature aren’t just for dating. They’re great for meeting fellow travelers, locals who want to practice English, or just someone looking for a coffee companion.
You can also join travel-specific Facebook groups like “Girls LOVE Travel” or “Backpacking Southeast Asia.” Ask if anyone’s in the same city—it works more often than you’d think.
Reminder: Always meet in public places and trust your gut. Being social doesn’t mean being reckless.
4. Hang Out in Common Spaces
Sometimes, all it takes is being visible. Park yourself in a café, rooftop bar, beach spot, or co-working space where other people are chilling out. Smile, make eye contact, and don’t be afraid to say something simple like, “Hey, is this seat taken?” or “What’s that drink you ordered?”
If the idea of approaching strangers makes your palms sweat—start small. Compliment someone’s backpack. Ask for a local recommendation. You’re not interrupting—you’re participating.
Hack: People are generally more open to chatting in places where they’re not in a rush. Skip loud tourist traps and head for relaxed, scenic spots.
5. Attend Events, Meetups & Live Shows
Cities all over the world host free or low-cost events that are perfect for mingling—live music, trivia nights, language exchanges, local festivals, or even movie nights.
Check out sites like:
- Meetup.com for group events
- Eventbrite for workshops and talks
- Facebook Events for local happenings
One casual night out at a music show or open mic could turn into a night full of new conversations, laughs, and even long-term friendships.
6. Volunteer or Work While Traveling
If you’re spending more than a week or two in a place, consider doing a short volunteer stint or work exchange. Platforms like Workaway, Worldpackers, or WWOOF offer opportunities to work with locals and other travelers in exchange for housing, food, or both.
You might help on a farm in Italy, teach English in Colombia, or assist in a hostel in Thailand—and you’ll likely meet amazing people in the process. The shared sense of purpose makes it easy to connect.
7. Be Open, But Not Overeager
It sounds simple, but one of the biggest tips is this: don’t force it. Not every solo trip will be filled with lifelong friends, and that’s okay. The key is to stay open—to moments, to people, to plans changing. You never know when a quick chat on a bus turns into dinner, or how saying “yes” to that walking tour might lead to a group hike the next day.
People are often kinder and more open than we give them credit for. Sometimes, they’re just waiting for you to say hello first.
8. Start Conversations with Locals
Don’t overlook locals—they often have the best insights and stories. If you’re at a small shop, in a cab, or just grabbing street food, ask questions. Most people are happy to share knowledge about their hometown or country.
You might not become best friends, but even a five-minute exchange can make your day and theirs a little brighter.
